We first met Joe and Sharon when their son and ours played on the same Rec
Dept. 3rd- grade soccer team. As the season progressed, Joe offered his
help to Parke in coaching the team, and the 2 men found they were a great
"fit" in their approach to working with the boys.
This partnership went so well that it continued through the team's 6th-
grade year --- consistently producing winning seasons, and affording all the
adults increasing opportunities to get together socially.
It wasn't long before the Norbeck house became the hub for many great
parties and evenings of spirited games. Sharon never failed to pull
together wonderful things to eat to sustain us through our rivalries, and
all the boys swarmed their yard and basement while their parents gave the
competition their "all."
This was around the time of the Trivial Pursuit craze, and no one was more
competitive than Joe and Sharon when the teams divided into "the Men vs. the
Ladies"! Winning was serious business. These board game battles became
cut-throat to the point Joe and Sharon each guarded their box of question
cards with ferocity --- lest the opposing team steal a look at the upcoming
answers. I'm not sure where they each hid their respective boxes, but it
wouldn't surprise me if they slept with them under their pillows!
Perhaps our favorite party Sharon and Joe hosted was a Murder Mystery Dinner
set in the Roaring 20's. All details of the party and the crime were part
of a packaged set one could buy in the bookstore at that time, and we went
all out, dressing in costumes of the era, with Sharon serving the
prescribed meal as we prepared to solve this heinous crime...
The most comical part of the evening, however, was that instead of
discovering the killer, we discovered that some of the clues had not been
included in the package! So if you had been shopping at Briarwood that
evening, you would have spotted about a dozen anachronistic adults decked
out in fringes and baubles, making a determined march to the bookstore to
retrieve the missing clues before the mall closed!
In recent years, we and the Norbecks have shared the rise and fall of the
fortunes of the Michigan basketball and football teams by texting and
emailing cross-country, and on the rare occasion, watching a televised game
together. Although they were always Big Red fans, the Blue could always
count on Joe and Sharon's unflagging enthusiasm, even in the most
disheartening of times.
It's impossible to think of Joe and Sharon separately --- They're one of
those couples whose sum is even greater than its parts. And we will never
think of Joe without recalling that so-infectious (and definitely
mischievous) sense of humor and picturing that great grin... and of course,
smiling to ourselves.
Joe is surely now sharing those great stories about sports, fishing lures,
the upside-down St.Joseph statue, and my brother's dog psychologist with all
the good folks on high. Thanks for all the laughter, Joe... We'll miss you.